Here's how I know I am on the mend:
My cat wants to be near me. That little puss in boots did not want to be around me at all for the last several days. You know you look brutal when your own pet doesn't want you. He was snuggling with me last night and this morning.
Did I mention that the little booger was hiding in my closet and ate the fringe off of my wrap? Yeah, I've been finding black yarn hairballs all over and oddly shaped poop in his box all week. It's been a real pleasure. That turd. he is cute as hell though.
The antibiotics are kicking in and I am even breathing sometimes. Hooray! At least my face doesn't hurt anymore. Seriously, is that all necessary? It's bad enough you're sick, but you have to be in pain as well?
I kind of get it though. It's a bit like what we are doing to the planet. The virus is just trying to survive, it isn't really conscious that it is harming me.
Yeah, that's a single cell fucking virus with no rational thought though. Humans should know better.
Oh my Zeus! It's like the damn Matrix. Hmmm...they were on to something.
I am limitedly environmentally friendly. I do recycle, but that's only because there is a bin where my dumpster is. That equals easy. I also reuse things as best I can.
I am a container whore. I love containers. LOVE them. I prefer to transfer boxed or bagged dry items into canisters in the cupboard. I have a Tuperware set that I love. It helps me stay organized and I like the way it looks.
Anyway, I have discovered a fabulous little container for spices: Crystal Light containers. I drink alot of Crystal Light. One of my favorites is Pomegranate Cherry. One of my girlfriends and I were discussing how we could not find it anywhere anymore and were debating on whether or not it was discontinued. My sweetheart of a man, hearing this, calls me the next week from Target and calls me to confirm the flavor. He seriously bought 14 of them. I cannot even deal with him sometimes. What a fucking lamb. But he's a total manly man as well. He's so perfect for me.
Segway again! Sorry. My point was that I buy some spices in bulk. Interpret that as sometimes I buy them in bulk, other times my mom purchases industrial sized containers and gives me baggies of yummy spices like cumin and Spanish paprika. In general though, it is way less expensive to buy them in bulk packages. I think I paid like $1.59 for a bag of oregano that has lasted me a year. And I put oregano in everything. It's stronger than the McCormick type stuff. Not that anything is wrong with those, the bagged stuff just seems more fresh somehow. The Crystal Light containers are perfect and fit in my spice bin, because of course I have a little basket for spices in the cupboard. Some other things I have used them for: jelly beans, popcorn kernels, hard candy, rice. They are super slim and hold a nice amount.
Yeah, don't think for a minute that I did not go buck with ideas to organize my man's pantry full of spices. Did I mention that he loves to cook? Yeah, he has more stuff than I do. We are always in the kitchen. It's such a good thing for us to do together. It makes even cleaning up (which I loathe) pleasant. I love that it's something he enjoys doing.
I think I could actually grow resentful of someone who did not do that with me. Honestly. It would eventually really get to me to be in the kitchen alone all the time cooking and cleaning. I don't know how my mom does it. My dad is helpful in the sense that he really does take care of the house and he is usually doing things to make it comfortable for them or repairing things. Stuff like that. But he does not necessarily even hang out with my mom when she is doing dishes. I love that if one of us is doing them, the other is there also, even if it's just chatting. Such a little thing it seems, but so important.
Be good to each other.
Smooches!
I think people overlook the little moments when someones doing something as mundane as shopping and they think of their partner in the little ways like grabbing something they enjoy just to put a smile on their face. It creates a warm feeling inside both people that says I thought of you today when i was at Target and that's priceless !!! Totally agree with you..a shared task like cooking together is vital in order not only to share something you both enjoy but to show how much you want and desire each others input and effort even in something as basic as that.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're starting to feel better too Arty :-)
Hey Chris! Yes, it's so easy to overlook how important those little things really are. People tend to look at the things on the big scale - buying expensive things, going to super nice dinners (which he also does for me), etc. Those things are meaningless if you are not doing the little things for each other.
ReplyDeleteYou can't be a negligent partner and then show up with flowers and be like "see how much I care?" Take out the trash and hang out with me while I do dishes...that shows me you care.
I do feel better thanks! I am still chilling at home, but at least feel better.
Arty, we are definitely on the same page (as usual). I love that you're as into cooking as I am, and that we can even enjoy cleaning up together. We've made some good food together, and there will be much more to come.
ReplyDeleteThank you for helping to organize my spices (I need you). The Crystal Light container idea is pure gold. They're air-tight, and they hold a lot. The openings are large enough to accommodate anything from granulated garlic, to whole bay leaves. What's not to like?
Every day should be special (the 14th). There will always be more small opportunities to share and show appreciation, than large ones.
Chris, I agree. People miss opportunities to be good to each other all the time. I wonder if it's because they think they have to do something really big, for it to "count". It doesn't have to be like that at all.
ReplyDeleteArty set up a little area in her kitchen her kitchen for my coffee/tea supplies. The coffee, tea, sugar, and my favorite cups are right there where I can find them easily. It probably took her two minutes to set that up, but I'm thinking of it a moth later. I'd rather have that kind of thoughtfulness than a material gift, any day.
Mac - Stop making me mushy!! I totally want to sap out right now.
ReplyDeleteEveryday's the 14th for sure.
Wasn't it super easy once I had everything in those containers. You have plenty of them at home - we sure are not going to run out of Crystal Light anytime soon. I cannot wait to organize your spices. Wheeee!
That is soo cool Mac. Your girl Arty is such the damn sweet lady !!! I know the feeling when someone pays attention to the toothbrush you use and then the next time they come over theres an identical one there waiting for you.You can take yours back and not have to lug it back and forth because the person you're with paid enough attention and spent a couple bucks to make it easier for you to just show up and feel a part of their life on every small level. It's more heartfelt than a bunch of flowers. It is sooo wonderful to hear Miss Arty is smiling..and is still as sassy as EVA !!!! lol
ReplyDeleteDamn straight Chris! Sassy as ever!
ReplyDeleteChris, she is the light in my world, sweetness, sass, and everything in between. She's a real woman. To echo her sentiment above, she's perfect for me.
ReplyDeleteYour point about feeling a part of a person's life through small kindnesses that show they notice things about you, and take a moment to do something thoughtful for you during their day, is a good one. Interactions like this definitely seem to strengthen the bond more than contrived gifts and empty words.
When women complain about there not being any good men out there, they don't know about guys like us. Rock on.
I love your blogs, sweetie, and this one is so very special! It's wonderful to hear how the two of you enjoy one another. Makes me think of my folks, who enjoyed 65 years of little things. Heck, on the day my mom passed, my father made me take him to the barber before we went to the hospital. He told me she didn't like him looking scraggily and he'd be darned if he wasn't completely cleaned up when he went to see her. Made me cry like a little girl. Such a little thing with such great importance at a time when most would ignore such a thing.
ReplyDeleteMac, I wish there were more like you in the world.
Glad to hear you're feeling better, Arty. Stay on this track, please. Continuing to send good vibes to you.
Alicia - that is so sweet. I mean, seriously sweet. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHe is indeed, a terrific fellow. I am very happy with him.